
Clear, Compassionate
Divorce Mediation &
Family Conflict Resolution
Without Courtroom Battles
We help you create wise, durable agreements — even if communication feels impossible or emotions are high. Avoid the financial and emotional toll of litigation and focus on what matters most.
There’s a better path forward:
Trusted, expert mediation that
empowers win-win solutions
– plus coaching and family pastoral care for those seeking deeper, holistic support.
Focus on well-being, not destruction
Save time, energy, & legal costs
Move forward with clarity, control, & dignity
What’s it like to work with us?
Confidential.
Client Testimonials
Conflict, Career, & Life Coaching
Scroll all the way down to read full-length testimonials from our coaching clients.
In Partnership with
Ust. Hassan Elwan
For clients seeking services shaped by Islamic principles, we offer clients the option to opt into services delivered in partnership with and overseen by Ust. Hassan Elwan and his network of qualified trauma therapists, psycho-spiritual advisors, Islamic scholars, and other professionals.
Meet the Network
Includes Islamic scholars available for religious reference to support clients across our services — with more professionals joining soon.
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Shaykh Tarik Ata, MA, was born and raised in the Southwest Suburbs of Chicago. During his childhood, he attended conventions and learned the basics of Islam through formal and non-formal means. Shaykh Tarik pursued his higher education at Northern Illinois University, where he attained a BA in psychology.After graduating from NIU, Shaykh Tarik went to Jordan in pursuit of Islamic knowledge. While in Jordan, Tarik studied at the World Islamic and Science Education University (also called the Islamic University), where he achieved a BA in Islamic jurisprudence, as well as an MA in Islamic jurisprudence with a specialty in Islamic commerce and finance. While working on his degrees, Shaykh Tarik studied with scholars and achieved various certifications (ijazat) in Islamic jurisprudence, the foundations of jurisprudence, the science of hadith, the Arabic language, Quranic recitation, and Islamic creed/theology.
In addition to his studies in Jordan, Shaykh Tarik holds a master’s degree from Bayan Islamic Graduate School and is currently pursuing a Doctorate of Ministry in Islamic Leadership at the same institution. He has been with the Orange County Islamic Foundation (OCIF) since 2017, where his primary focus has been on individual well-being, leadership and strengthening the community and Muslim family unit.
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Dr. Hassan Elwan holds a doctorate in Electrical Engineering from the Ohio State University and a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University. He holds numerous patents and has extensively published in the field of microelectronics, and is currently a Distinguished Engineer at Marvell Technology. He regularly lectures about Islam and spirituality in Southern California and provides professional counseling services to the community that are grounded in both psychology and spirituality. Dr. Elwan has more than 10 years experience in counseling from both a spiritual and clinical psychology perspective. He is certified in many psychotherapy approaches including evidence-based Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples. -
Samar “Summer” Hadrous is the founder and principal of Ihsaan Solutions Network, LLC, a divorce mediation and family conflict resolution practice facilitating peaceful dispute resolution as an alternative to lengthy, damaging, and expensive litigation in family court. Samar is a Certified Mediator with the Dispute Resolution Center at Community Action Partnership of Riverside County (CAP Riverside), a public agency where she provides community mediation as well as small claims court mediation for the Superior Court of California, County of Riverside. Her Certified Mediator credential was issued by CAP Riverside, which is authorized by the County’s Superior Court to train and certify mediators under qualifications defined by the Court. This authority is granted by the California Dispute Resolution Programs Act of 1986 (DRPA), which allows each Superior Court to establish its own mediator qualification standards. Samar continues to track developments from the California State Bar Association, which is finalizing a new voluntary statewide mediator certification program expected to launch in the near future.
Her 230+ hours of training include two 40-hour DRPA programs (exceeding state guidelines), general and California- and Texas-specific divorce mediation, Advanced Mediation & Facilitation Conflict Resolution Training with world-renowned mediator Ken Cloke, Co-Parenting Specialist™ certification, domestic violence, high conflict management, mental health and childhood development and attachment, and California Child Abuse & Neglect Mandated Reporting (General & Clergy). She also has 80 hours in certified Islamic and professional life coaching training, and over a decade of volunteerism in the Muslim community, including 5 years of youth mentorship. Full professional bio below.
Trusted by Scholars,
Community Leaders, & Educators
Divorce and family conflict aren’t just emotionally painful – they can destabilize every area of life.
When communication breaks down, you’re left facing fear, distress, financial uncertainty, and the risk of unfair outcomes – often imposed by people who don’t understand your reality, or decided by a judge who doesn’t know nor care about your reality more than you do.
The traditional legal system – with its adversarial focus and prolonged courtroom battles – often deepens the wounds rather than healing them. It drains your time, energy, and financial resources.
⋄ A litigated divorce in the U.S. typically costs between $10,000 and $30,000 per person, even with just 1–2 issues in dispute. In California, high-conflict cases involving children can exceed $100,000.
⋄ The court’s timeline? Often 1 to 2 years – and sometimes several years.
And the emotional cost? It’s real.
Prolonged legal battles increase rates of anxiety, depression, and trauma symptoms in both adults and children.
Even after the case ends, many report lingering emotional distress that delays healing and disrupts parenting, career, and community life.

When you fight fire with fire — kids get burned.
High-conflict divorces leave lifelong scars on parent-child relationships.
Research shows that children exposed to high-conflict divorces and prolonged custody battles are significantly more likely to suffer long-term emotional distress. Sustained parental conflict during divorce weakens parent-child bonds, reducing closeness, trust, and contact well into the child’s adult life.
When divorce turns into battle, families lose connection for generations.
Such children are significantly more likely to experience strained or impaired relationships or estrangement with one or both parents into adulthood.
But divorce isn’t the only place conflict takes a toll.
Whether it’s with siblings, aging parents, in-laws, or adult children – unresolved family conflict erodes relationships and threatens emotional and spiritual well-being. Many families spend years of avoidance as a pattern, and painful dynamics take root – leaving everyone drained and disconnected.
You may feel like your only options are to endure the conflict or walk away entirely.
But both paths come with a cost.
Relationships fracture. Resources dwindle. Peace, stability, and legacy hang in the balance.
The longer conflict lingers, the heavier it gets — and the harder hope becomes to hold onto.
But there’s another way.
At Ihsaan Solutions Network, we offer a better way forward for divorcing parties and families in conflict.
Our mediation process honors the emotional realities our clients face while providing clear pathways toward resolution — empowering divorcing parties and families in conflict to reach durable, wise agreements that strive to honor the interests of everyone involved.
We also provide family and individual life coaching and pastoral care — embracing the depth and uniqueness of each person’s journey, because meaningful growth goes beyond paperwork.
Through compassionate, neutral mediation and conflict coaching, we create a structured, dignified space where our clients can:
⋄ Make mutually acceptable decisions about their futures or settling their dispute
⋄ Preserve financial resources by avoiding prolonged legal battles
⋄ Strive to minimize emotional damage for themselves and their children
⋄ Influence the details of their agreements, rather than surrendering that power to a judge
⋄ Make space to regain clarity amid emotional overwhelm
⋄ Communicate more effectively, even when tensions run high
⋄ Generate options, explore creative possibilities, and reality test to ensure durability
⋄ Honor their interests and negotiate with proposals and counterproposals
Why Mediation Works
Less expensive than attorneys
Mediation costs less – with hourly rates averaging $150–$350 vs. $250–$500 for attorneys – and many cases resolve in just a few focused sessions.
Higher Compliance Rates
Agreements reached through mediation are more likely to be honored by both parties – because each person actively participated in crafting the terms.
Higher Satisfaction Rates
Divorcing parties who mediate are more likely to feel satisfied with both the process and the outcome – because they have a voice in shaping the resolution.
Better Settlement Rates
Non-attorney mediators trained in transformative and facilitative models achieve higher settlement rates when compared to attorney-mediators or retired judges, who often default to evaluative styles.
Child-Centered,
Cooperative Approach
Children fare better when parents mediate – with less emotional trauma, healthier co-parenting, and more stable relationships post-divorce.
Imagine a world where children’s well-being isn’t an afterthought — but their voice is the starting point.
Mediation helps make it possible.
Children Deserve More Than Survival.
They Deserve Centered Care, and
⋄ To be at the heart of thoughtful resolution – not trapped in the middle of conflict
⋄ To be centered in care, not caught in the crossfire
⋄ To have their needs guide the process, not get lost in the chaos
⋄ To grow up free from emotional fallout they didn’t create
⋄ To feel seen, safe, and supported – even as everything changes around them
Even When a Marriage Ends, a Child’s Need for Family Remains.
⋄ A child’s need for connection, stability, and both parents remains
⋄ The bond with both parents still shapes their emotional future
⋄ Their sense of family still matters – maybe more than ever
⋄ Their story with both parents is still being written
⋄ Divorce may close one chapter – but it doesn’t have to tear the rest apart
About
Samar Hadrous
Certified Mediator,
Divorce Mediator, &
Co-Parenting Specialist
More Than a Profession:
A Calling
I didn’t just train in conflict resolution and mediation — I lived it.
As a child of divorced parents, a co-parent, and someone who has navigated her own mediated divorces, I bring a unique lens to the emotional, spiritual, and practical challenges individuals and families face during times of transition.
This work is deeply personal and deeply professional. I’ve combined my lived experience with over 230 hours of formal training, extensive community engagement, and years of coaching and program leadership.
My mission is to help families navigate conflict with clarity and dignity — and to help communities remain a source of healing, not heartbreak, during these turning points in life.
Beyond the personal story, here’s the professional path that brought me here:
Professional Bio
Samar “Summer” Hadrous is the founder and principal of Ihsaan Solutions Network, LLC (ISN), a divorce mediation and family conflict resolution practice facilitating peaceful dispute resolution as an alternative to lengthy, damaging, and expensive litigation in family court. ISN currently provides mediation services to California residents and disputes only, and will soon expand to serve Texas.
Samar is a Certified Mediator with the Dispute Resolution Center at Community Action Partnership of Riverside County (CAP Riverside), a public agency where she provides community mediation as well as small claims court mediation for the Superior Court of California, County of Riverside. Her Certified Mediator credential was issued by CAP Riverside, which is authorized by the County’s Superior Court to train and certify mediators under qualifications defined by the Court. This authority is granted by the California Dispute Resolution Programs Act of 1986 (DRPA), which allows each Superior Court to establish its own mediator qualification standards. Samar continues to track developments from the California State Bar Association, which is finalizing a new voluntary statewide mediator certification program expected to launch in the near future.
Samar’s 230+ hours of training include two 40-hour DRPA programs (exceeding state guidelines), general and California- and Texas-specific divorce mediation, Advanced Mediation & Facilitation Conflict Resolution Training with world-renowned mediator Ken Cloke, Co-Parenting Specialist™ certification, domestic violence, high conflict management, mental health and childhood development and attachment, and California Child Abuse & Neglect Mandated Reporting (General & Clergy). She also has 80 hours in certified Islamic and professional life coaching training.
Previously, Samar managed programs at the Institute of Knowledge and A Continuous Charity, and held public health roles encompassing project management, change management, training, outreach/engagement, and technology. Her 15+ years of volunteerism includes 5 years of youth mentorship at two mosques (Islamic Institute of Orange County and Islamic Society of Corona-Norco), 10+ years with AlMaghrib Institute (Southern California Chapter’s Vice President/Ameerah for 2 years), new Muslim mentorship, and passionate advocacy for women, men, and children before, during, and after divorce.
Samar’s lived experience includes her own mediated divorces, co-parenting, motherhood, medical challenges, and growing up as a child of divorced parents. She earned her B.S. in Foods and Nutrition (Dietetics) from Cal Poly Pomona and pursued an M.S. in Human Nutrition and Functional Medicine at University of Western States. Samar is certified in Prosci Change Management and twice previously in Mental Health First Aid.
What is Ihsaan?
Why It Matters:
Our divorce mediation and family conflict resolution services are inspired by the Islamic ideal of ihsaan: an Arabic term found in the Qur’an that calls us to act with utmost excellence, sincerity, and integrity in ways that manifest beautifully. In the context of marriage, the Qur’an instructs us to either hold onto the marriage with goodness or part ways with ihsaan — beautiful excellence.
In conflict, ihsaan can become our north star — a shared aspiration for everyone involved, including the mediator.
It invites us to rise above toxic and destructive conflict patterns, and to approach conflict with intention, compassion, personal accountability — and even the possibility of generosity.
For those who sincerely seek it, ihsaan can be a transformative guide through life’s most difficult transitions — revealing unexpected fruits and making space for unanticipated blessings. It can offer a path to healing that endures long after the resolution itself.
Feels beyond your capacity right now? We get it, and we’ll compassionately meet you where you’re at.
Our Services
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Divorce Mediation
Craft a Marital Settlement Agreement or Memorandum of Understanding regarding community and separate assets and liabilities, as well as spousal support, child custody, child support, and other issues of importance.
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Parenting Plan Mediation
Collaborative creation or revision of parenting schedules and shared responsibilities.
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Child Custody Mediation
Child-centered collaborative creation or revision of legal and physical custody agreements.
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Family Conflict Resolution & Mediation
Sibling disputes, in-law tensions, adult family dynamics, and extended family breakdowns. Mediation styles may feature facilitative, narrative, directive, and/or transformative techniques.
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Elder & Adult Care Mediation (Coming Soon)
Mediation for aging-related care, housing, medical decisions, and family roles.
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Small Claims Mediation
For disputes involving $12,500 or less (California small claims limit). Common Dispute Types: Business-to-business, HOA, landlord/tenant, contractor/homeowner, employee/employer, consumer/merchant, collections, accident-related claims, household disagreements, neighbor/neighbor, employment-related matters, and family-related financial disputes.
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Family Pastoral Care & Life Coaching
Support for children, teens, and parents as a family unit — through a spiritually grounded lens. Helps each family member navigate challenges, foster strong identity, build character, practice healthy communication, strengthen life skills, and nurture emotional maturity and connection – all while never taking God out of the equation.
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1-on-1 Conflict & Life Coaching
Personalized guidance for individuals seeking clarity, resilience, meaningful growth, and more through life’s challenges and opportunities. Ideal for navigating difficult decisions, conflicts, major life phases, or making confident strides in career, business, or purpose-driven work.
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Group Coaching (Coming Soon)
Small-group coaching focused on conflict resolution, communication, personal development, and life transitions – through a spiritually grounded lens. Enjoy double the value at a fraction of the 1-on-1 hourly rate: Receive your own focused mini-sessions while also gaining insight from others’ breakthroughs, questions, and shared wisdom.
Service Areas
With plans to expand service areas, Ihsaan Solutions Network, LLC, currently provides mediation services to California residents and disputes only, and will soon expand to serve Texas residents and disputes.
Coaching and family pastoral care services are available internationally.
Rates &
Availability
All mediation and conflict resolution services — including the drafting of mediated agreements — are offered at a rate of $95 per hour.
⋄ Initial sessions are typically 2 to 3 hours, depending on the nature of the case.
⋄ For subsequent meetings, clients may choose session lengths ranging from 1 to 4 hours, with breaks as needed.
⋄ Full-day mediations (6–8 hours) are also available.
⋄ Sessions are conducted virtually via Zoom. Stay tuned for in-person options coming soon.
⋄ (Coming Soon) Group coaching sessions are provided at a fraction of the 1-on-1 hourly rate.